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So I had the pleasure of going through one of the traditional rites of passage in America…Senior prom. The day of somewhat disgusting pageantry and the day that’s played up in every major teenage movie as some sort of magical night…

That all being said, I’ve nothing against prom. It’s fun for sure, date or no date. Just have friends…That’s always a plus, really. I did enjoy my prom as bitter as the first passage here sounded, I think I just think prom is overplayed. People treat it like it’s your wedding. For crying out loud, it’s another high school formal! 

I chose to rent a dress this year, because I know I’m never going to re-use the dresses I wear to formals… So it’s just a waste of money. My last year’s prom dress calls to me every time I open my closet…So generally a good idea that I rent, no? Thanks, Rent the Runway!

I’ve had an RTR account for almost two years and never taken the plunge. I’ve always been afraid that I won’t fit, it’ll be an unmitigated disaster, that the rental will be in sore shape… My dress was like new, RTR allows you to get a primary size, another size up or down for free, and another dress in your primary size for only $25 just in case. They send everything all freshly cleaned in a garment bag (and seriously my dress looked new), and there’s a padded envelope inside to return everything in. My first experience with them has gone so smoothly. I’m definitely using RTR again, and I’m glad that I rented a graduation dress from ‘em too!

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while you know that I tend to go for sequined mini dresses with sleeves. No denying i did that this time too… I chose ADAM’s black and gold foil sheath, paired it with 6” high black suede Louboutin-esque pumps, a pair of gorgeous rented Dannijo earrings and a funky jade ring.

I like to go for dresses that stick out. Thus, I wore a dress that wasn’t your typical prom dress. You know what I mean? K. I think you do. I also try to pick something that’s not going to make me want to slam my head against a wall, crying out in disgust at what I thought was okay…

Beauty-wise, I went for a retro look. I curled my hair and swept it to one side, added some contouring, a cat eye with a slightly purple-smoked lid, and a red lip.

contouring is magical stuff y’all

These Dannijo earrings are literally everything.

wif my best fran…And Summer’s photobombing hand.

Full makeup shot. Sometimes I pretend I’m Jessica Rabbit y’all.

Dress, ADAM (via rent the runway)| earrings, Dannijo (via Rent the Runway)|shoes, Steve Madden| Ring, Forever 21| clutch, bazaar in India| lipstick, MAC in “Ruby Woo| nails, OPI “big apple red”

So yeah. That’s prom for you. I hope you enjoyed this ranty and bizarre post. What did you wear to prom?

xoxo

Rothko inspired manicure, cus I’m artsy like that.

Rothko inspired manicure, cus I’m artsy like that.

So, basically this is a quick outfit post.

Also. PUPPY!

I just bought this beauty…

I just bought this beauty…

Bright pink lip keeps the dreariness away on a rainy day. Thanks, Nars!

Bright pink lip keeps the dreariness away on a rainy day. Thanks, Nars!

Losing Weight

This is a brief one, more of a thought. Most anyone who knows me knows that I’ve lost a fair amount of weight in the last few years. I think what’s kept me going, and what I’d like to share with everyone today is the fact that…

Every time you want to give up — keep going. Why? Because you’re going to be proud of yourself if you finish that last set, keep eating well, etc. Trust me.

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Two years, rah rah!

So it’s been two years since I started The Fashion Files. (Oh and I missed the two year anniversary because I’m a second semester senior and I’m busy enjoying my life/friends/the weather/the internet). It’s been kind of an amazing journey, and I want to thank everyone and anyone who has stuck by me. I myself have changed so much over the course of my blogging career, from my physical body, to my attitude towards myself, as well as my attitude towards blogging.

I started this blog for the hell of it, and gradually got wrapped up in the craze most bloggers do. #INTERNETFAMUZ. (That’s poorly phrased, but this is the internet so #no1curr). Which quite honestly, I’m fine with if you want to purse fashion as a career, then I’d say go for it. FIGHT FOR YOUR DREAMZ yo!! AMIRITE PEOPLE? AMIRITE?

Look at us so freakin avante garde. I gave that bitch a colorful fuzz pom pom thing. Bitches love colorful fuzz pompom things.

That being said, I’ve changed the format of this blog from “oh hey let’s review every collection ever and lick the Mulleavy sisters’s asses even though I secretly think their stuff is absolute crap!” to, “oh hey y’all imma style blogger and every outfit is a thesis of my soul, it releases new layers of meaning - for I am an onion, multifaceted, delicious, but painful if you mess with me!” to, “let’s mix long-form and shortform posts.” (Sorry for this long-winded explanation. But hey, you’re reading…)

This is supreme goddess Anna W, smiling at me for not being a douche and showing up to a fashion show with a huge bow on my head that obstructs everyone’s view. *le passive aggressive*

So, where does that leave us? Oh right, the future. That thing. Well. I’m not sure. I’m going to continue with the new format, but I think I’m going to start breathing more of a soul and personality into this blog. Reading back on some of my posts I feel as though my voice is removed, and that I’m being so staunchly formal when it’s not needed. Also, I have no idea how often I’m going to post. Fashion isn’t a professional outlet for me — it’s purely a source of fun, a hobby, what have you and I’d like to make sure it’s not a stress producing thingamajig (how the hell do you spell that…) BUT REST ASSURED my minions, I’ll still write about pretty shit. K?

OH. Also: I think I (may) start mixing more of my life into this blog. Or I may start another blog. Which would leave me at three blogs. Gah. So overexposed! (But seriously, I’m thinking of starting a health/weightloss related tumblr. I may not be a total fitness expert, but i know a little about losing weight and staying motivated.)

So ur, this was a major tl;dr but: thanks for sticking with me y’alls. I hope I don’t disappoint you. And if I do, just don’t send me hate mail.

xoxo

Nikita 

this is what I wore to my semi formal Saturday.

this is what I wore to my semi formal Saturday.

An interview with Justin Bridges of Tucked Style

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Justin has been someone who I’ve supported for a long time — and he’s supported my blog for a long while as well.  I almost always take his advice before making any major blogging related decision. On top of running the only menswear blog I can actually read and enjoy, Justin is a self taught photographer who has shot editorials for Doc Martens and the like… He also works as a buyer for a major luxury retailer, on top of being a blogger and fashion editor for the online-only magazine Urbane Sophisticate. So get to know the other “JB” (yes, I had to go there.)

The Fashion Files: You’ve not been in fashion for a very long time, but you’ve had amazing opportunities, such as having some of your work featured in Esquire & GQ. What do you attribute this to?

Justin Bridges: I’m not sure to be quite honest.  If I had to venture a guess, I’d call it the intersection of hard work and good personalities.  I’ve bonded and networked with a lot of people in a short amount of time.  When good people take notice of the time and energy you’re putting into a quality product, they want to help you share that with more people.  The menswear community is small but extremely supportive.  So with humility and deference, I would say a good bit of my short term successes have come with the help of some really amazing and talented people willing to support me and give me an opportunity to showcase my talent.

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TFF: How did your family react to your decision to leave finance?

JB: Jokingly, my parents wondered how I was going to pay them back for my student loans…luckily they aren’t in my name!  Seriously, my parents are extremely supportive - especially of my happiness.  There are tons of things that can go wrong in their “child’s” life, and if switching careers is the current concern, then I think it only meant sense that they greeted it with smiles and open arms.  I know they worry about me making enough money, etc…but largely, my family, my brothers and sister…they are an extraordinary foundation.

TFF: Did you have any perceptions about the industry that either rang true as you became a part of it or were proven false as you worked?

JB: Excellent question.  I don’t really enter too many situations with preconceived notions.  For fashion, I always assumed it’d be more a more relaxed work environment, it would be filled with mostly female colleagues, and I would meet tons of self-important people (not unlike finance, but for different reasons).  I work in fashion retail on the buying side, I would say for my world - dot com - the work environment is more relaxed but don’t be fooled.  It is a corporate animal.  I have tons of female colleagues on the retail side!  Tons of them on the editorial side in PR.  And lots of men on the menswear front, but like I said, mostly females.  You know what, you meet self-important people everywhere, so I’d say I’m indifferent on that one being true or false.  This experience, thus far, has been wholly positive, somewhat tough and frustrating, but majorly eye-opening and welcoming.

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TuckedStyle for LiveFast Magazine

TFF: Where do you see yourself ten years from now?

JB: No comment. No clue.

TFF: If you had to give yourself a singular “aesthetic” what would you say it is?

JB: Experimental.  That or, “mash-up.”  I don’t know how to define my aesthetic.  I use to hate when people pigeon-holed me into “prep” or “Americana.”  I never thought it applied to me, and I never rocked the same look from week to week.  I take influence and inspiration from Japan, Europe, American heritage, street style…all kinds of places.  Then I just let it hang and don’t think about it at all.  I just let my mind create aesthetics in my head and it usually ends up being a mash-up of different looks and ideas.  Consistency isn’t my goal in personal style, except for consistently making it look effortless and good.

TFF:  What’s your favorite thing about menswear?

JB: My favorite thing about menswear is the experimentation of fabric and texture.  I love unexpected fabrics in a tie, on an outerwear piece…on a shoe.  I just like when a menswear designer shakes it up a bit.  In menswear, you have to be so careful about altering the silhouette, so you don’t get all types of different garments and concept pieces like you see in womenswear…at least not in mainstream channels.  Therefore, you have to find your little pieces of rebellion elsewhere in more classic menswear items.

TFF: What do you appreciate about womenswear?

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Wooster, as shot by Bridges.

JB: I love the variety.  Women don’t have the same reluctance or perception of gender and sexuality that men have to worry about.  Therefore, you see more expression, more costume, more interesting things in the world of womenswear.  My favorite thing about menswear is the ability of women to blur the line in an appropriate way.  Androgyny and women in menswear are two exciting themes I love to observe.

TFF: If you could swap lives with anyone in the industry for a day, who would it be and why?

JB: I don’t know about all that.  One day is such a tease anyway that I wouldn’t want to torture myself in that way.  Maybe the ultimate day in a person’s shoes would be taking over a designer’s role on the day of their fashion show.  I don’t know though, I really just want to get to the point where my dream world merges closer to my reality.

TFF: Is there one piece of advice you got that’s really transformed how you approach your work? 

JB: I don’t think so.  I’ve learned a lot of things from a lot of people.  With regards to photography, I learned a lot working with Greg from SPREADhouse with regards to how I choose to shoot.  I snap tons more pictures and try tons more techniques when I’m shooting because I’ve learned from the way he works.  Everybody I interact with usually provides a nugget of information that is key to my development.  You can never learn to much; you can never learn it all. I wouldn’t necessarily put anyone’s advice over another.  Trial and error is the best thing I know when it comes to approaching a project or anything else in life.  Mistakes are awesome.

another portrait by Tucked

TFF: What’s your favorite trend/designer?

JB: I have favorites, but not a favorite.  I’m a student of style and fashion but I’m more oblivious than my fans and readers would realize.  If I had a dime or nickel for every time I ended up being the only person aloof during a menswear conversation with bloggers or editors at GQ…boy, I could quit my day job.  My standard answer, however, goes something like this:
I love the cropped looks from Thom Browne, along with his consistent color palette.  The rag & bone look, as long as they stay true to their roots, is something I’m always feeling.  It’s like the new way to do American heritage.  I’m pretty much a fan of anything Dries Van Noten produces.  Michael Bastian suiting is amazing.  Burberry Prorsum has put out some incredible suiting pieces and outwear.  I am not quite a fanatic, but I love what Junya Watanabe does.  I’m a big fan of the designs that emerge from InAisce. My attention has been captivated by Simon Spurr’s past two collections.  Phillip Lim - a new and exciting aesthetic for me.  There’s so many…I’ll just stop there before this gets ridiculous.
 

TFF: I’ve noticed you aren’t afraid to experiment with your blog — do you think this has been largely positive for you? Or, has it confused your readers? 

JB: I think it has been incredibly positive.  Tumblr is a platform that you have to learn to interact with.  As an original content guy, I found it extremely confusing figuring out the best way to share my content.  You don’t want to work against the machine and erode your chances of spreading your blog’s voice far and wide.  You also don’t want to dilute the format so that the journalistic intelligible approach to blogging is lost.  I think merging article content with solo photographic images is the perfect harmony.  It gives true knowledge hunters an opportunity to learn from my opinion and fact finding.  It also gives pure Tumblr addicts the ability to curate their own blogs using my images.  I think it works.

Stalk Justin full time over at: tuckedstyle, on twitter @jbridgesnyc & @tuckedstyle

three of my favorite lipsticks
photo by: Nikita

three of my favorite lipsticks

photo by: Nikita

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